Am I doin the right thing? Plz help me b4 it's too late?
My friend I'll call her G, and me are both in 8th grade. She moved at the end of 7th grade, so we went our separate ways, but we still stay in touch. Lately G's been sounding all depressed and shit, but she said she's not depressed, so I shouldn't worry about her. Now she's drinking. I told her she should stop drinking cause it'll ruin her life and she'll regret it when it's too late. My other friend, i'll call her Q, on the other hand also drinks and she's telling G that it's ok to drink as long as she doesn't become an alcoholic. But isn't this how being an alcoholic starts? U think u'll stop when u want to, but then u get addicted and can't control yourself....at least that's wat I learned. I want to tell G that drinking is bad no matter what," no buts" or "I won't drink too much", drinking is bad, and that's it. So whose right, me or Q?I just can't let G ruin her life wen I could have probably stopped her from doing that.
Neither of you are right.
"I just can't let G ruin her life wen I could have probably stopped her from doing that."
You're assuming you have control over your friends life. You don't. She knows your opinion and she knows Q's opinion. Now, she has a decision to make. Regardless of her decision, you can't stop her. The only things you can do are be a friend, or not be a friend.
You are right though that alcoholism starts by drinking. It would be hard for it to start by not drinking... But, whether your friend becomes an alcoholic or not depends on her. Does she have an addictive personality? Does she have problems with alcohol? Regardless of the answers though, the choice is hers. You can't stop her from making her decision. Depression, however, is the worst reason in the world to start drinking. Alcohol just masks the pain, it never cures it.
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